Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
Indeed. Also very important to be able to read your partner’s body language. You can usually tell if someone isn’t 100% into something just from how they move, facial expression, where they look etc. Pay attention! And if they look uncomfortable, check in. If they say they’re OK, but then you feel uneasy, it’s also OK to stop, cuddle, and talk.